2014:: One Year One Big lesson

Confession of Life

2014: A Year, a Lesson

Ah... 2014... What a year it was. Never before had I experienced a year so filled with mystery. Uncertainty seemed to hover over everything. Frankly, even now, I struggle to understand what transpired in those 365 days. Was it like this for everyone? Perhaps not. For me, it was a year of craziness, pain, and hardships. But why did it happen this way? Was it karma, or something I created?

Here lie some big questions:

Do we make things just to break them?

Are we too unsure about the future?

Are we afraid to take risks?

Do we think too much about trivial matters?

Do we rely too heavily on close friends and mentors?

Or are we simply prone to crafting stories out of nothing?


Not everyone may agree with these questions. After all, every incident has its own reason. Yet, when you look closely, you may find certain patterns in life.

Do we really care about the past? Yes, everyone does, to some extent. But time urges us to move forward, embrace new opportunities, and explore the world and ourselves. It's a cliché, yes, but if you ask people if they're truly happy or satisfied, many might say "yes," even if their body language suggests otherwise. They hesitate, unsure and reluctant to take risks.

Where does this uncertainty come from? It arises when we give it too much space in our lives. We are not Nostradamus; we don't know what will happen in the next few seconds, yet we plan and dream because we crave a sense of purpose. Millions of dreams are born and lost every day. Are you on the path of failure or success? We all find mixed results. In some areas, we are champions; in others, we stumble. But accepting failure isn’t defeat—it’s an understanding that not every battle is meant to be won.

Risk feels daunting, but where is the real danger? Often, it exists only in our minds. Life itself is risky, yet we move forward daily, driven by our desires to build a happy, passionate life. Life cannot be smooth and easy; it needs challenges. Without them, it isn’t truly life. Nature follows its own patterns—sunrise, sunset, the loyalty of a pet. There is a natural beauty in things that remain constant. We humans could learn something from that simplicity.

Yet, humans are also capable of deep love and connection. True, unconditional friendships and relationships are rare, but they exist. Think of your mother’s love—it’s pure, unwavering, and one of the few bonds untouched by selfishness.

When we love someone, it doesn’t happen overnight. It takes months, sometimes years. And while every day may seem the same, subtle changes are happening. When challenges arise, both partners need to support each other. Overthinking, sharing fears with the wrong people, or allowing a third person to interfere can create rifts. Sometimes, a third person comes into a relationship unintentionally, but if they have true respect for you, they will understand boundaries. True love doesn’t fade over time; it perseveres.

"IF YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEBODY, THEN YOU WILL WAIT FOR THEM NO MATTER WHAT."

As 2014 comes to a close, I find myself reflecting on a year that seemed filled with negativity. But it’s not all bad; it’s simply a phase. Life occasionally requires a “factory reset”—a chance to shed past burdens and embrace new joys. Take a moment for yourself, reflect on the year, and keep only the good things. Enter the new year with a fresh perspective and a revived spirit, just like a newborn in this vast world.


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Final Reflections

Life is short. Live each day as if it’s new. Don’t wait for someone to join you; journey forward alone if you must. Prioritize time with loved ones, for family, work, and your passions. Never leave things for tomorrow. Express your feelings, your joys, and your sorrows openly because you never know when a moment might be your last. Happiness and love are intertwined with life, each nurturing the other. Think of love as the door to a home; it’s the entrance to a relationship and the safety that binds it.

Love transcends boundaries. Love without expecting anything in return, and one day, love will bring you miracles.

A quote by Chetan Bhagat rings true:

> “If you really have someone who understands you, who is patient with you, who loves you genuinely, who cares about you, who respects you, who is proud of you, who doesn’t take a day without calling or texting you, who never fails to find time for you, who fears losing you... please, love that person. Don’t take their care and love for granted; such people are rare these days. Don’t let them slip away over minor disagreements.”



Help those in need, even in small ways. Give a moment of your time to help a stranger, and watch how that small act brightens your day. Don’t waste food; share it with a stray or someone in need. These are blessings from the universe, and giving is a joy in itself.

Thank you to the person who inspired me to write these words, who taught me about life, relationships, love, and self-respect. You opened my eyes to this world and taught me to live each day fully. I am blessed to have had you in my life.


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Wishing You All a Joyful 2015

May 2015 bring you new moments to cherish. Live, love, and let life surprise you.

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